In the spirit of Halloween, I decided to turn my mind to a topic that is as old as humankind itself: FEAR! It’s one of our basic emotions, yet we don’t always seem to understand what underlies it. So let’s have a closer look at this and see what fear is and when it occurs.
As I said, fear is a basic emotion that all babies express in their very early days when they encounter a situation where they feel helpless and unprotected to some danger, so it’s largely a survival instinct, passed through the generations. Of course, that doesn’t mean that seeing someone else experience fear from an object won’t make you scared in return from that same object… In fact, this is how a large proportion of phobias emerge. You go through (or witness) some form of psychological and/or physical trauma and because of that aversive event, your brain makes the association between the event and the negative outcome. And because pain=bad, you then learn to avoid things related to that event in order not to feel the nasty reaction (pretty much instrumental conditioning in a nutshell). For example, you’ll see that most people with a dog phobia will fear dogs because of that largely exaggerated thought of being attacked or bitten rather than the dog itself.
We all seem to regard fear as a sign of weakness, hence a bad thing. However, it can often be used to help you learn an important lesson. Take fairy tales for example: most of them have quite disturbing plots when you think about it as an adult (especially the Grimm Brothers‘). I mean, seriously: two kids, ditched by their father and evil stepmother in the middle of a forest, being fed by a cannibalistic witch in a remote house, only to violently kill her later by pushing her into the oven. What the hell were people thinking back then?! Of course, there are far darker examples (I still get shivers down my spine when I think about ‘Bluebeard’) but scaring your kids with fairy tales should not be seen as a pointless activity in any case. They say that when we’re kids, we’re more scared by images rather than ideas but this gradually reverses as we become adults. Scary fictional stories have actually been used throughout the centuries in order to help get a point across or teach children vital lessons about life. If your children grow up in a protective bubble their entire life, they will never be ready to confront the dangers and harshness of the real world.
Alright, time for some biology stuff now! The part of the brain responsible for our fear regulation is called the amygdala. It’s situated in the lower part of the brain and has not evolved significantly since the development of Homo sapiens. This proves that it’s a more primal structure, often related to our subconscious responses to certain objects. For instance, if you see a creepy spider, crawling next to your finger, your amygdala would send a super-fast response to your motor system so that you can get your fingers away from the feared object as quickly as possible. All of this happens in less than a second and we often can’t control it.
The famous author Stephen King delineates 3 types of fear. The first type is the ‘gross-out‘ where we react to something diseased or morbid with a natural sense of disgust. The second type is ‘horror‘ which is our response to something unnatural (e.g. seeing a ghost). The third type is ‘terror‘ which is hard to describe but it generally denotes our behaviour towards something vague or downright ambiguous. A very good example for this are masks. As some psychologists have put it – the facial disguise temporarily eliminates the part of the body which reveals our emotions and attitudes. When you can’t read emotions, your brain doesn’t know what to expect and tenses up. And then you wonder why so many people are scared of clowns…
Conclusion time! It’s true that fear is nothing new to scientific research. There’s still much to discover about it though. We now know that scaring someone can also be useful in terms of preparing them for the same (or even worse) situations later on in life, as it’s the case with fairy tales. Well, as long as it’s moderate, so please don’t go scaring the s**t out of your cat or 3-year-old daughter with a creepy Halloween mask unless you want them to be delightfully traumatised for the rest of their days!